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January 19th, 2010

When it comes to playing with sex toys, it is sometimes fun to do it with your partner or hubby. But how exactly can you do that? Remember that it is only natural to expect some hesitation or uncertainty on your husband’s part. After all, there’s this popular misconception that sex toys are replacements to your husband’s lovin’.

Here are some tips to introducing your life partner to sex toys:

1. Talk!

This seems so basic but it still deserves this top space. Talk is necessary in making sex toy introductions and, more importantly, communicating assurances and clarifications. You can expect your man’s defenses to be up. The best venue for fixing this is not in the bedroom where you can talk more openly about sex toys.  Just remember to be more receptive to your husband’s questions. He may communicate some apprehensions, and you should be prepared to respond constructively to these.

2. Take your husband to a sex toy tour.

You can do this in a local shop or online. The point in looking around together is to be able to explore possibilities together. This can get him interested in experimenting with sex toys. Plus, it’s a great way to spend quality time with your hubby. Check out different sex toys and their models, and when possible, have a representative explain how to use these in a couple scenario.

3. Start slow and small.

Sometimes, size and pacing can be daunting. A sex toy newbie might feel pressured and scamper back into the safety of vanilla sex. An introduction is what it is–an introduction. Liken yourself to a teacher handing her student his first crayon. Teach him the parts first, and all the creative possibilities in this small thing. Then, guide him along your (or his) body’s canvas.  Assure him that whatever he does, it would only result in a fun, colorful, and exhilarating sexual exploration.

4. Always assure.

Sometimes, your man can’t help compare himself to your sex toys. He might feel that he should be “enough” for you and you shouldn’t need sex toys in the first place. You need to assure him that sex toys aren’t his replacements. Tell him that sex toys are means to explore other sexual possibilities together. Couple sex is a shared journey, and sex toys are there to help along the way.

5. Flirt using your toys.

Nothing can turn on someone into using sex toys more than flirting with him using them. Just imagine this scenario. Your husband comes home from work and finds a candle-lit space, with you calling to him while arousing yourself with your sex toy. That can be so hot!  It won’t be a surprise if your man skips dinner and feasts on you instead.

6. Share news.

If you keep yourself up to date on the latest with regard to sex toys, then share some news with your husband. Talking about it casually makes the concept commonplace and more acceptable.

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January 12th, 2010

Cleaning your sex toys and vibrators is not just about these toys’ maintenance. It also concerns you and your partner’s sexual hygiene. Hence, it is always important to take time for this. Here are some tips:

1. The least you can do when cleaning your sex toys is to do so after each use and before sharing with a partner. This ensures that any microscopic dirt or residue is removed before storing. If possible, also take time to clean your toys before using. This ensures you that it’s free of any contamination during storage.

2. Use warm running water and antibacterial soap to clean your sex toys. This applies to most sex toys, except high-end sex dolls. Dolls need to be wiped clean with a special cleanser instead. Always wash your sex toys thoroughly, making sure that no soap residue is left. Also dry your toy using a lint-free cloth to wipe it clean. Or, better yet, hang them so they can dry naturally.

3. Be extra careful and diligent when washing sex toys made of jelly/latex. This is because the material of these toys is porous and more prone to latching onto germs and dirt residue. This being the case, never use an abrasive when cleaning them. Abrasives will only create microscopic tears on your toys and will only worsen the overall quality of your sex toys.

4. You can boil silicone and glass sex toys. For silicone, the limit is three minutes in hot boiling water. Or, you can use your dishwasher. This gives your sex toys a more thorough clean. When using the dishwasher, do not add soap when in the wash cycle. The dry cycle is unnecessary and may even damage your toys. Just take them out and allow them to air-dry.

5. When cleaning your sex toys, make sure to seal tight all toys with battery casings. Water seepage can ruin the motors of these toys.

6. You can also sterilize glass and plastic toys. Do this after regular washing with water and antibacterial soap. The standard rubbing alcohol will do the trick. Dribble some alcohol onto your lint-free cloth and wipe your entire sex toy. Rinse the toy under running water again to remove alcohol residue. Let your toy air-dry.

7. Special materials like CyberSkin need extra care. Apart from regular washing with warm water and antibacterial soap, it is advisable to apply powder before storing these toys. This powder can be purchased online or locally in sex toy stores. The powder is designed to maintain the quality of the toys.

8. You can also opt to use sex toy cleaners to clean different dildos, vibrators, and love dolls. This cleaner is available in sex toy stores and is designed to disinfect your toys without harming their material.

9. Leather toys, like those used in BDSM, need to be washed using a foaming cleanser. After which, scrub it down and apply hydrogen peroxide on its surface. Wipe off the hydrogen peroxide and then allow the leather toys time to air-dry.

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January 5th, 2010

Personal lubricants, at some point, become necessary for having sex. We all age, and like it or not, we lose the ability to produce as much natural lubrication as we’d want to. Personal lubricants aid when playing with sex toys too. You become more sensitive, while insertion also becomes easier. Plus, if you’re into anal sex or are experimenting with it for the first time, the act becomes more comfortable.

Here’s a basic guide on selecting the best personal lubricant for you:

1.There are three main types of personal lubricants; water-based, oil-based, and silicone-based. Each of these has their own
pros and cons, which you’ll need to consider.

2. Water-based personal lubricants are the “safest” of the three. This is because not a lot of people will have allergic
reactions to it. It doesn’t cause breakage and damage to condoms and sex toys. Since it’s made of water, these personal lubricants are also easy to clean up. The downside is that water is absorbed by the body. Hence, you’ll find that this kind of lube “disappear” after a few minutes. If you are using it for anal sex, you will then need to reapply it every so often since the anus doesn’t produce natural lubrication. Water-based personal lubricants are best use for clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

3. Oil-based personal lubricants are longer-lasting than the water-based ones. Hence, this is good to use in anal sex. But since it’s oil, it’s a lot harder to clean up. You will need to wash yourself thoroughly with water and soap. Also, oil is known to cause breakages in latex condoms. If you decide to use oil-based personal lubricants, use lubricant-safe condoms. Some people may also experience some allergic reactions to these personal lubricants. Before buying, do a skin test first.

4. Silicone-based personal lubricants are also longer-lasting than their water-based counterparts. People are less likely to develop allergic reactions to these. However, you shouldn’t use silicone-based personal lubricants with your silicone sex toys. Silicone against silicone will cause damage to your sex toys. This hastens the lifespan of your toys.

5. There is a whole gamut of personal lubricants in the market that purport to desensitize the skin. They sell this specifically for anal sex. If possible, stay away from these types of sex lubricants. There is something so unnatural in numbing yourself for sex. After all, you’re having sex to feel the pleasures of it, right? Anal sex need not be uncomfortable, even with regular non-numbing personal lubricants. You only have to take it slow and play only with the toy and size that’s suitable for you. Desensitizing yourself only exposes you to risks, like unknowingly causing tears within your vaginal or anal walls.

6. Some personal lubricants will offer you extras, like different flavors and warming effects. These may be fun to try. Always remember that playing with personal lubricants adds a new dimension to your sexual adventures.

7. Check the expiration dates when you buy personal lubricants. Make sure to keep this in mind as you use up the product. Throw it out once it’s past its expiration date.

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December 29th, 2009

A sex toy party is definitely going to be a fun and exciting gathering. You can just imagine the energy of a group of people sharing something so intimate and sexy, although sometimes it’s hard to find one or, much more, get invited to this kind of event. In this case, it becomes a good idea to be the host. And why not? If you have a great set of friends who’d enjoy a night like this, then go for it!

Given the theme of this party, it’s a good idea to stick to some “must-follow” rules for throwing a sex toy party.

1. Let all participants know what the party’s all about.

Sometimes, people still make the mistake of not being upfront about things like this. A mistake like this can cause embarrassment, to say the least. Friendships have been strained in other cases, so rather be honest about your sex toy party. This is not the time to surprise friends. You’d want them to know what to expect, so they’ll be prepared for such a wild night.

2. Invite only mature people.

You’ve seen them around–people who just laugh and laugh when led into sex toy stores and the like. They come out with nothing.  And on the way home, they just keep on laughing. Imagine having them around during your sex toy party. As you know, sex toys are serious business. A party for it is like a convention of sorts. You meet with like-minded women, who’d be interested to see innovations and upgrades in the sex toy industry. You definitely can’t afford to have someone in the party who will just laugh off your efforts to find the perfect sex toy and have a wild night of fun.

3. Hook up with a reputable sex toy company.

Of course, when you throw your sex toy party, you will need a provider who will be in charge of the sex toys. An established and respected local sex toy company is best for this. This company will bring in the products for consideration, and send a sex toy consultant to your party. The consultant should be someone who can explain each item openly and extensively. Ask your friends for recommendations. Or, head to the online forums for suggestions.

4. Make the setting perfect.

Sex toy parties almost always end up being intimate get-togethers where you share some private sex tidbits about each other. This fosters more intimate relationships and the right mindset for considering sex toys. Your setting should help make this happen. A drab room that’s too lit up can put a damper on the mood. Consider ambient lighting and maybe some candles here and there. Prepare a few bottles of wine, cheese, and chocolates. Sit your guests in comfortable couches.

5. Have a separate room where people make their orders.

Party or not, sex toys are still private matters, and people appreciate some discretionary measures when it comes to purchasing them. This is why so many people prefer to buy sex toys online. Make room for this and allow your guests to buy their sex toys in private.

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December 22nd, 2009

The story behind the Doc Johnson vibratoris just as interesting as the toys themselves.

Reuben Sturman, founder of Doc Johnson vibrators, was a “wanted personality” by the FBI and the US government under President Lyndon B. Johnson. Before he ventured into sex toys, he started his adult business by first selling adult books.  Because of his black market activities and connections, the authorities were after Sturman. But Sturman shrewdly dodged the authorities, enough to create the now infamous Doc Johnson vibrators.  This line of vibrators — relatively new during his era — was mockingly named after President Johnson.  Although the authorities eventually caught up with Sturman using tax evasion charges, his Doc Johnson vibrator lived on, bringing sexual joys to many men and women in these more sexually open times.

Today, Doc Johnson vibrators come in a wide variety of colors, shapes and sizes. Whatever you’re into, you will surely find a Doc Johnson vibrator for it. Among the favorite choices here are the Pocket Rocket and the Rabbit Doc Johnson vibrators.

The Pocket Rocket

The Pocket Rocket Doc Johnson vibrator can be a traveler’s best companion. This vibrator is discreet enough to fit a regular purse. It does not look like a vibrator at all, but more like a small flashlight. Even when seen by prying eyes, you don’t have to feel guilty about keeping one.  The Pocket Rocket gained popularity for its mobile nature and for being one of the most powerful vibrators in the market. People didn’t call this “rocket” for nothing. It comes with a variable textured tip that adds to the sensation. Wherever you are, you’d be in for a good time with a Pocket Rocket Doc Johnson vibrator.

The Rabbit

The Rabbit Doc Johnson vibrator is another in-demand vibrator. For sure, you’ve heard of the rabbit before, albeit with some notoriety. This vibrator is equipped with practically everything you’ve dreamt of in vibrators. It has a vibrating and rotating tip. The shaft is lined with pearls mid-way. This group of pearls rotates for that added sensation when inside the vagina.  The rabbit can simply fulfill your fantasies. It is especially designed to stimulate the clitoris and take you to greater heights of pleasure as it vibrates. Some models may even rotate. Some variants of the Rabbit Doc Johnson vibrator come with a separate control for the rabbit, shaft, and tip, giving you full control for your pleasure. Given the popularity of the Doc Johnson brand, you can find a wide selection of their vibrators in storefronts and online retail sites.

Doc Johnson is known to have some of the most affordable sex toys in the market. The prices of their products cover a wide range. This is because several of their sex toys are made of jelly (latex), which is one of the cheapest materials for sex toys. This is well and good if you will be using condoms on your toy. Otherwise, you may want to stick with the slightly more expensive but still affordable silicone Doc Johnson vibrator options.

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December 15th, 2009

At first glance, one might think that the Clone-A-Willy kit is the ultimate vanity “toy” for the guys. Which proud man wouldn’t want to clone his willy, right? And since he can do that, why not give each woman he meets his rubber twin? It’s like sex toy innovation conniving with vain men all over the world.

Of course, in several cases, this is not actually how it goes down. If anything the Clone-A-Willy kit may be a partnered woman’s best friend.

Women in loving relationships tend to be loyal and all, and if this can extend into the world of sex toys, then why not? The Clone-A-Willy is the best alternative in this case. With the Clone-A-Willy kit, you can create the ultimate and very personal realistic cock. Plus, this realistic cock vibrates too — now that’s a great perk! With a Clone-A-Willy, you and your lover can have get foreplay fun while making a toy for you too.

How the Clone-A-Willy works

The way it works is, first, you insert your partner’s penis inside a molding tube. This copies his cock’s size, form, and other details. Ideally, he should be fully erect for this. Once the mold has grabbed his cock’s likeness, you then pour a liquid rubber material into the tube. You let this sit for a few hours and then you’re done — you now have your ultimate realistic cock!

The vibrating realistic cock that you are able to produce is hypoallergenic. So, you are not likely to experience any allergic reactions from using this Clone-A-Willy realistic cock. Of course, the rubbery material here is only silicone-like. It is not silicone. Hence, it is best to always use condoms when playing with this realistic cock since the material may be porous. Porous sex toys can retain dirt, debris, bacteria, and viruses within its pores. By using a condom, you protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases and other infections.

One of the common apprehensions with a Clone-A-Willy is the logistics when making the toy. Some men may wonder if the penis cloning it can be used for uncircumcised, crooked, or pierced penises. The answer here is absolute yes! The Clone-A-Willy’s tube curves to accommodate any penis. For those with piercings, either the man removes his piercing or retains is so that this feature will be captured by the mold. In any case, it shouldn’t pose any problem when coming out with the final sex toy.

Even men with excessive or long pubic hair can easily work with a Clone-A-Willy. What they can do is apply oil or petroleum jelly on their pubic hair first and sweep this back out of the way. Once the mold has been taken, they can remove it and then just wash off the oil or petroleum jelly.

You will definitely have fun with your Clone-A-Willy. While this can be quickly dismissed as a “vanity” product, it is not always the case. The Clone-A-Willy can certainly spice things up in the bedroom. You and your partner end up with a good sex toy, which you create from scratch.

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December 8th, 2009

Who says boys get to have all the fun? That’s definitely not true, especially with a silicone Romeo. Surely, a handful of us who’ve tried love dolls for women would agree. These love dolls can do practically anything you’d want in bed, and not come with the typical package. Unlike real partners, these love dolls don’t need a special dinner and some nurturing. Silicone Romeos don’t need to watch the game before spending some naughty time with you. With these lovers, it’s all about you.

Of course, people need the human touch. Women need a lover’s presence — someone they can talk too, and someone they can have fun and explore with. But certainly, sometimes, they’d just want satisfaction without any strings.

Perks of getting love dolls

Silicone Romeos are some of the best alternatives in this sense. You can get the feel of a “real” body next to you. These love dolls are well equipped with a vibrating dildo, which is detachable in case you’d want to use this separately. Plus, some even come with a vibrating tongue. Surely, you will not be left wanting with these love dolls for women.

You can also feel some satisfaction in terms of feel and texture with these love dolls. Silicone is a soft material and can warm up to your touch. For the added thrill, some silicone Romeos even come with extra bouncy butts. This is just in case you’d want to hold onto something nice while in the throes of passion.

Of course, it is understandable to feel some misgivings about these sex toys. Love dolls, while thoroughly satisfying, do seem gigantic and gaudy. But then again, if you’re the kind of woman who want total satisfaction, then all this is worth it. Love dolls for women can be great fun, any way you look at it.

Purchasing love dolls

When you’ve decided to buy your own silicone Romeo, you will be faced with several choices. The most expensive of these are those lifelike ones that come complete with internal skeleton-like frames. These are the high-quality love dolls for women. The costs of these start at thousands of dollars. This is because of the high-end craftsmanship that goes into these silicone Romeos. Of course, in terms of performance, high-end ones don’t differ from the more affordable ones as much. The big difference really is the aesthetics.

If you are strictly into performance and have a few hundreds to spare, then there are many affordable options for you. You will find that a lot of these cheaper ones are inflatable. Hence, maintenance is easier and they don’t take as much storage space.

And even while these inflatable ones have minimal aesthetic value and are far from realistic looking, these silicone Romeos still offer some “extras” such as facial and body hair (if that’s what you prefer). The dildos of these sex toys can be used separately. Cleaning only requires a tub of water and soap.

Generally, love dolls for women can be good sex alternatives. If you open up your mind to these wonders, you might be surprised by how much fun you have using them.

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December 1st, 2009

A double dildo can be the strangest thing. At first look, it seems like something from an alien movie. It’s like a squiggly gigantic worm that can attack any minute (some may actually get turned on by that). But then again, it’s just a double dildo and it’s not as daunting as it seems.

A double dildo is a versatile sex toy that can be shared by a hetero couple, two women, and even two men. Really, the extent that this sex can do is limited only by your imagination. You just have to get over the initial unease with using such a weird looking toy.

Of course, it is likely that you might not be the one needing to be convinced when it comes to these double dildos. A sex toy such as this loses its point if left unused with a partner. Your lover, either a man or a woman, is best involved with you in the use of the double dildo. That’s why it’s a double dildo, right?

So, if your partner is a virgin when it comes to dildos — much more if he or she is a virgin to sex toys — it might require a lot more than a “Hey, meet my double dildo!” to convince him or her to come join you. Here are some tips that can help you:

1. Be understanding of where you’re partner’s coming from. Even with today’s renewed interest and ever-growing openness to sex toys, these may still represent an uncrossed limit to your partner. The last thing you should do is to push them toward that limit. The ideal is to let them cross it themselves. Surely, if you “present” your case clearly and passionately, they will eventually get the “deal” with sex toys, such as the double dildo

2. At the same time, understand the misgivings regarding double penetration, especially if your partner is male. He might still harbor some fear toward this kind of sex play and need your gentle guidance in overcoming that fear. If you want to penetrate your partner using the double dildo, it would be best to get him or her into it first. Start with a smaller sex toy. Getting into something like the double dildo needs some getting used to.

3. Likewise, it is a good idea to ease your partner into simultaneous penetration using the double dildo. Although a double dildo can mean a very orgasmic time in bed, it might still need some figuring out in terms of logistics, common rhythms, and other considerations. Try the toy out slowly first. Use it separately and see how you each like its texture and fit. In time, you and your partner will eventually lead to simultaneously using the toy.

4. Have fun. In everything you do, especially with your partner, don’t forget the element of fun and exploration. Things don’t have to be perfect the first time around. There’s always room for slip ups. Heck, you might even find yourself having a good time “making mistakes”! Just let go and trust that, eventually, you will get your rhythms right.

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November 25th, 2009

We’ve all heard of how people usually hide their sex toys. Online, there’s even a top 5 or top 10 list. I won’t be surprised if Letterman had actually run this down himself on his show. So, it’s also not odd that these once-great hiding places are now vulnerable to prying eyes. These days, every curious kid and nosy houseguest has access to the Internet. If they’ve read an article or two about this, then they are bound to find your stash of sex toys.

Hence, it might be a good idea to draft up another list. This time, the list would consist of more unlikely places where you can hide your sexual treasures. Here are some of them:

1. Knickers or Boxers: Our underpants drawer might be one of the less sifted-through drawers in the house. Daughters are unlikely to go through it in search of something to borrow. Likewise, toddlers will not dare go through it out of fear of catching your grown-up cooties. So, this presents us with a great way to hide our sex toys. Keep your toy in a box or solid case and place this at the back end of your underpants drawer. Your underwear can be used to hide this box. Or, if you don’t have a box, a lint-free cloth pouch will do. You can use the dresser’s back end or place the pouch in between panties.

2. Ornamental Cases: We’ve seen these ornamental cases on dressing tables or even in living rooms. These are classically designed vanity boxes, equipped with several compartments and ample sex toy space. And what better way to hide our sexual treasures than in a rare Georgian brass inlaid rosewood vanity box or in an Edwards Lady’s silver gilt vanity box? These are beautiful ornamental pieces that are also alternative storage spaces for your sex toys. Small toys can be placed within several compartments. Likewise, there are vanity boxes that are big enough for a dildo and harness set. Plus, many of these vanity boxes can be secured through built-in locks.

3. Beauty Bag: A beauty bag is a wonderful thing. You can carry it around wherever you go, and it contains your everyday necessities like facial soap, shampoos, hair conditioner, makeup, and perhaps a discreet toy. If you have itchy feet and constantly find yourself wandering all over, then this is a great way to explore and still have your sex toy with you. Allot a compartment especially for your sex toy, and make sure this is always kept clean and hygienic.

4. The Pillow Case Pouch: Sex toys are best if they can be accessed quickly. In the heat of the moment, it is sometimes a hassle to have to go through dressers and locked ornamental boxes. This is where your pillow case comes in. Most pillow cases have enough space for you to stash away your favorite toy. Just make sure to protect your toy from dust and debris by placing it within a lint-free cloth pouch. Likewise, be careful when getting into pillow fights or plopping down on the bed after a long day at work.

5. Out!: Sometimes, one of the best ways to hide sex toys is not to hide them. This especially applies to sex toys made of glass, which can be aesthetical wonders in themselves. And many people have done so – they display their glass sex toys like they were just everyday ornaments, and they get away with it. The one contention here is you should make sure to clean your sex toys before and after you use them.

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November 18th, 2009

It’s not surprising to have some people question the difference between a vibrator orgasm and an orgasm from the “normal” sources. By “normal” sources, we’d mean from a sex partner. There’s actually a marked difference from an orgasm from a vibrator against one from a partner — but it’s not what you think. This difference is a good thing, really.

With vibrators, stimulation is more intense. Regardless of the setting — it can be at the lowest possible one — no human tongue, finger, or sex organ can ascertain the amount of vibrations that vibrators give out each second. This means that the stimulation from vibrators can be really intense. In fact, some women claim to need “time” and practice to get used to it. And surely, this has also meant more intense orgasms for some women. It doesn’t really matter much what type of orgasms you usually get (vaginal or clitoral). You can still experience more intense ones via the vibrator.

Another difference with vibrator orgasms is the “controlled” variety that you can get. By this, we mean how the different levels of settings can allow you to control your sensual exploration and peak. You can start at a low level and build up, at your own pace. This is very different from “normal” orgasms that you have with a sex partner. Even the best dancers can have missteps every once in a while. With partnered vanilla sex, some moves can be too abrupt or off, unlike with vibrators, which you can direct as you please.

Of course, this should not turn people off “regular orgasms.” An orgasm is an orgasm, and this is always good. If anything, the regular route toward orgasms can learn a trick or two from vibrator orgasm. In fact, both methods can be applied at the same time. What’s better than manual stimulation or vibrator stimulation? Both, simultaneously.

Making the most out of these sex toys

The best thing with vibrator orgasms is that you get to really know yourself more, sexually. You know what and where your orgasmic buttons are, and you learn how to bring yourself through different heights. With this, many women have been able to orgasm more often and more intensely with vibrators. If we can bring this “learnedness” from vibrator sex to regular sex, then we’re all set for new and more expansive adventures, by yourself or with your sex partner.

This can start by bringing in the vibrator during “regular” sex. You can use it on yourself or have your partner explore you with it. Always make sure to communicate what you like with your partner. (With or without the vibrator, open communication is always important when it comes to sex.) As you explore your different sexual stages with your partner, your rhythm becomes apparent, and your partner learns this too. This can pretty much be the start of something new between you and your lover. You both become more attuned with each other’s sexuality — all during “regular” sex and with the help of the vibrator.

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