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Handcuffs have long made their way out of an officer's must-have kit and into many adventure lovers' bedrooms. You won't find these handcuffs only on hardened criminal these days. Those men and women who want some bondage action have also used these cuffs, albeit towards naughty ends.

Handcuffs for sex

Handcuffs used for sex can be different from the handcuffs used by officers of the law. Of course, you will still find the standard metallic silver handcuffs being used every now and then. With these, you will also find leather line handcuffs, pink fur-line handcuffs, and the like. The handcuffs used in bed come in varieties limited only by your imagination.

The point of using handcuffs in bed is to bind the submissive person. This limits his or her arm movements. Sometimes, handcuffs have also been used around the ankles to pin down the legs. The unique thrill of handcuffs is that act of surrendering to your partner. With your arms and legs tied down, you have no choice but to do their will. Men and women who have domination and submission fantasies swear by the use of handcuffs in bed.

A few notes before using handcuffs

Of course, like in all sex toys, the use of handcuffs should always be discussed first, especially since these cuffs still have a popular and very different use outside the bedroom. Trust and mutual consent are necessary for a sex partner who want to try handcuffs in bed. If you find yourself getting interested in using these sex implements, discuss the prospect with your partner first. You will find that acceptance to handcuffs in bed varies. Some will think nothing more of it than metallic straps and willingly fulfill your fantasies. Others may look suspiciously at handcuffs and dread using them. It really depends on the person. So, when you discuss with your partner, be prepared to give possible scenarios and sex scenes. Likewise, know how to explain the prospects of bondage and what it means to you. Your partner may be willing to give handcuffs a try, even when he/ she had some initial misgivings.

Also, since handcuffs are in the field of role playing, and domination and submission, it is also important to agree on a safe word. A safe word is a word you say when you've had enough of the domination/submission play. This way, your partner knows that you'd want to take a step back while not ruining the mood.